My Great-Grandfather Wilson was very old when I knew him. Our lives intersected
for no more than 4 years — I as a small child, he as an elderly man — but he is someone I think about often. I remember traveling with my parents to visit family in the small town of Crawford, Nebraska, and there he would be: soft-spoken, gentlemanly, and with pockets full of lemon drops. He must’ve liked children, for I never felt uncomfortable with him, and I knew that he thought I was interesting and important. For a four year old, that is an awesome experience – plus there were lemon drops!
Long after his death, nearly fifty years later, I was visiting my grandmother (his daughter) in her home. One night after dinner she brought out several bundles of small notebooks, held together with twine and rubber bands. They were known as “penny notebooks” long ago, and my great-grandfather had used them as diaries. She showed me several years worth, mostly from a time when he was in his late teens and twenties, and I became fascinated with his life. There was a strong practical streak in his writings, as lists of purchases and tasks were painstakingly enumerated. There were also glimpses of people I would hear about much, much later – the young woman who would become his wife, for example. All mixed together, the mundane and the profound; buying lumber and burying a family member, selling a horse and courting a young lady. He wrote it all.
What he wrote about was interesting but not nearly as meaningful to me as the way he signed off most of his entries: “It was a good day.” Almost every single day, no matter what, this young man of little means and limited horizons surveyed his life and pronounced that is was good. I was so moved to think of him as a 19 year old, completing a back breaking day, and then faithfully writing that benediction at the end of it: “It was a good day.”
What does it take to make it a good day? Does it take everything going as planned? people doing what we’d like? bodies being fully healthy? How powerful it is for me now, over a hundred years later, to hear the words of that young man, reminding me that a good day is any day we are able to participate in our lives and to be part of the lives of others. It’s not magic, it’s not perfection. But it is good. It is God.
May the eyes of your hearts be enlightened, we read in Ephesians 1:18. As we go through our days, may we each find that we hold our lives with greater care and deeper gratitude. May our hearts see the goodness around us, and may we know ourselves to be both the recipients and the deliverers of God’s love in all that we do. And may we know all our days to be good.
Thanks be to God,
Kim